Looking in this mirror I can only imagine what people see. Growing up I was reminded to not care what others thought of me. Continue reading Visions Of Me
Visions Of Me
Is he Being Played or Overthinking? – Let’s Talk Dating Advice
I need to find out if I’m a chump or simp or just being played or overthinking. Continue reading Is he Being Played or Overthinking? – Let’s Talk Dating Advice
Single & Open to Dating Challenge – Week 1 ( Where to Meet Singles )
Single and Open to Dopeness – April Challenge
April will be Single & Open to Dopeness Month
It’s Spring! And we are going to spring up some great dating experiences with dope qualified individuals. Hopefully, and you have prayed that your companion is out there being prepared just for you essentially setting yourself up to meet them in this season. Continue reading Single and Open to Dopeness – April Challenge
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March Love Language Challenge – Week 4 – Acts of Service
Hello Everyone!
Today is Love Language Day!
The love language we will focus on this week is Acts of Service.
Continue reading March Love Language Challenge – Week 4 – Acts of Service
Healing
I know it feels like that last relationship took everything you had left. I know it feels like you lost so much time and it’s too late for your heart to experience being loved and cherished. But if you dwell on what your EX did, it will mix into everything your nEXt tries to do. Don’t let the pain destroy your soul and kill your destiny, because if it Continue reading Healing
#DearFutureWife- Guest Writer Lee Lewis
Dear Future Wife,
these past few years we have shared more than just pure love, we explored different periods in time, visited the moments of universes in our souls, and walked in the direction of life together, remembrance of saying hello to your heart, kissing within your
mind, and making love to your thoughts, I remember the yesterday’s, and embrace the visions of our future, you listen to me without needing words, because the rhythm of hearts plays the same songs, leaving the feeling inside me of being home, you’re beautiful inside at out, and have become the foundation, we are building, for the love that is smiling to wrinkle in time causing our union, future wife, I love the testimony giving to me, by your soul…
By: Lee A Lewis
Take Acountablility
Ladies, are we holding ourselves accountable for what happens to us or are we playing the victim?
Gentlemen, same question for you?
March Love Language Challenge – Week 3 – Receiving Gifts
Hello Everyone!
Today is Love Language Day!
The love language we will focus on this week is Receiving Gifts.
Do you tend to love people the way you want to be loved?
One of the biggest mistakes I see people make in dating is buying gifts for their person of interest when that is not their love language. It’s so sad to watch because the receiver will come off as unimpressed while the giver is feeling unappreciated. I challenge you all to stop fueling the person you’re dating with tangible things without truly knowing if that is how they receive love. This should save you the feeling of appreciativeness and disinterest.
My goal in this Love Language challenge is to help individuals to identify the 5 Love Languages and to learn how to love others according to theirs.
I challenge you this week to identify if your partner, person of interest or spouse has the love language of Receiving Gifts. If so, give them something thoughtful that shows them that you like/care/love them. You’d be surprised how that may WOW them.
If Receiving Gifts is their love language:
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else’s love and affection for you.
Next Week we will cover Acts of Kindness. See you Wednesday!
Happy March!!!!
This month’s challenge will be focused on Love Languages.
Each week in the month of March we will cover a love language and discuss tips on how to receive and give love to those who speak that particular love language.
Week 1:
Quality Time
Week 2:
Words of Affirmation
Week 3:
Receiving Gifts
Week 4:
Acts of Service
Week 5:
Physical Touch
Stay Connected! We will talk soon!
Each week in the month of March we will cover a love language and discuss tips on how to receive and give love to those who speak that particular love language.
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